Cant create Database using dbassist

Ok, heres the next problem,
when I run svrmgrl,
I do a connect internal,
then I cant do a startup because obviously there is no database to connect to.
So how do I run the script on svrmgrl?

startup nomount pfile=/../../../init.ora

now this may sound really odd,
but when I do a connect internal on svrmgrl,
it asks me for a password?????

There must be a password file. Look in ORACLE_HOME/dbs for a file called orapwd*.

THe problem is dbassist should create a initSID.ora file,
which it is not, which does not let me do anything beyond that.
So any clues on why isnt the initSID.ora file being created?

edit initSID.ORA, change REMOTE_PASSWORD_FILE to NONE

REMOTE_PASSWORD_FILE=NONE

If you are going to create your database through server manager, as has been suggested because dbassist isn't working, you'll need to create your init.ora yourself.

you mean initSID.ora?
or init.ora
because init.ora is there.
but initSID.ora isnt.
So how do I edit the initSID.ora to change the remote password when there is no initSID.ora?

You need to create your initSID.ora yourself.

two things:
I did a reboot, and did a connect internal on svrmgrl and i got connected.
Now I need to create my own initSID.ora,
where can I get a sample initSID.ora file from to make the changes?