You must gather system statistics with dbms_stats.gather_system_stats during a typical load on your system. You can simply run the following:
SQL> exec dbms_stats.gather_system_stats('START');
After an hour or several hours run:
SQL> exec dbms_stats.gather_system_stats('STOP');
Your system stats will be stored in sys.aux_stats$. Check the values in this table whether the value for MREADTIM is bigger than SREADTIM. If this is not the case than system statistics will not be used.
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