soft pare versus hard parse

[learning_bee]

based on the result below:

OVERALL TOTALS FOR ALL NON-RECURSIVE STATEMENTS

call count cpu elapsed disk query current rows
------- ------ -------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ----------
Parse 4697 5.01 7.46 0 0 0 0
Execute 3897 12.96 276.84 457 1490 15037 704
Fetch 3092 2.00 1.95 0 18592 0 921
------- ------ -------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ----------
total 11686 19.98 286.25 457 20082 15037 1625

Misses in library cache during parse: 23


OVERALL TOTALS FOR ALL RECURSIVE STATEMENTS

call count cpu elapsed disk query current rows
------- ------ -------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ----------
Parse 1407 0.04 0.07 0 0 0 0
Execute 1407 0.21 0.29 0 1404 1409 702
Fetch 705 5.26 120.24 0 2113 702 704
------- ------ -------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ----------
total 3519 5.53 120.60 0 3517 2111 1406

Misses in library cache during parse: 1

shared pool was aged out and it had to parse from disk which is bad.
I have too many hard parse, I have been reading some of the post in asktom and he has mentioned that try to increase session_cached_cursor to some positive number, right now, it's =0 on my database.

Any inputs???

as always, thanks for everything