I think it's rather high. It's not the VM ,is it?
Adding more ram will not help if you reactively keep increasing the shared memory,sga as on NT you can't have a process consuming more the 2 Gigs.
So i guess if you find it worrisome try tuning your queries and containing your memory usage.
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